Comments on: Look Me In The Eye http://successbeginstoday.org/wordpress/2008/04/look-me-in-the-eye/ Personal Development Plan for Success Wed, 08 Feb 2012 18:01:08 +0000 hourly 1 By: Kevin http://successbeginstoday.org/wordpress/2008/04/look-me-in-the-eye/comment-page-1/#comment-9470 Kevin Tue, 18 May 2010 14:36:23 +0000 http://successbeginstoday.org/wordpress/2008/04/look-me-in-the-eye/#comment-9470 For a multi-person audience, this technique seems pretty helpful actually. I might try it sometime. But for a one-on-one interaction, this might not lead to the deep rapport which you might want. I mean with a large audience, some people even suggest looking over the people's heads, to make people think you're looking at the person behind them. For a personal interaction, I feel that any kind of focused attention at all is distracting you from a true, deep connection. I would actually suggest practicing making eye contact with many strangers first to get that out of the system and not be shy about looking people in the eyes. Then just forget about eye-contact altogether, because if you're connecting emotionally, there is a 100% chance you will make eye-contact with the person you're interacting with. Check out my article on eye-contact,<a href="http://datingafterdumped.com/wordpress/?p=66" target="_blank">http://datingafterdumped.com/wordpress/?p=66</a> For a multi-person audience, this technique seems pretty helpful actually. I might try it sometime. But for a one-on-one interaction, this might not lead to the deep rapport which you might want. I mean with a large audience, some people even suggest looking over the people's heads, to make people think you're looking at the person behind them.

For a personal interaction, I feel that any kind of focused attention at all is distracting you from a true, deep connection. I would actually suggest practicing making eye contact with many strangers first to get that out of the system and not be shy about looking people in the eyes. Then just forget about eye-contact altogether, because if you're connecting emotionally, there is a 100% chance you will make eye-contact with the person you're interacting with.

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]]> By: » Body Language #2: Keeping Good Eye Contact [Ideas for Impact #35] » Right Attitudes » Ideas for Impact » by Nagesh Belludi http://successbeginstoday.org/wordpress/2008/04/look-me-in-the-eye/comment-page-1/#comment-8546 » Body Language #2: Keeping Good Eye Contact [Ideas for Impact #35] » Right Attitudes » Ideas for Impact » by Nagesh Belludi Sat, 13 Dec 2008 02:13:01 +0000 http://successbeginstoday.org/wordpress/2008/04/look-me-in-the-eye/#comment-8546 [...] ‘Success Begins Today‘ blog cites a technique from Nicholas Boothman’s book, ‘How to Connect in Business in 90 Seconds or [...] [...] ‘Success Begins Today‘ blog cites a technique from Nicholas Boothman’s book, ‘How to Connect in Business in 90 Seconds or [...]

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]]> By: Michael Cortes : Put eye contact in your communications… How? http://successbeginstoday.org/wordpress/2008/04/look-me-in-the-eye/comment-page-1/#comment-2677 Michael Cortes : Put eye contact in your communications… How? Wed, 09 Apr 2008 23:04:04 +0000 http://successbeginstoday.org/wordpress/2008/04/look-me-in-the-eye/#comment-2677 [...] Once in a while you run into something that is brilliant! I did just that. It was over at “Success Begins Today”. [...] [...] Once in a while you run into something that is brilliant! I did just that. It was over at “Success Begins Today”. [...]

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